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InMD's avatar

I think this piece gets a lot right, and that the Democrats are at their best when they're in their more laid back 'live and let live' version. I also think JD Vance is a great illustration at the way Americans chafe at having politicians and the state more generally pushing hard, value based judgment into people's private lives. It also shows that no matter how many notes you take from European family policies or new traditionalist online movements in America, women (and plenty of men) will not like you if you come off as a sexist or holder of highly retrograde attitudes about womens' place in society.

I would add though that Matt doesn't go far enough when it comes to 'just not doing' things. While I understand that we're awkwardly wandering our way to pretending a bunch of stuff just didn't happen in the teens though 2020 Democrats should remember this next time they think about aggressive ideas about identity or sex or activism in public schools or the work place. A lot of that is, and continues to be, just as weird and in some ways much weirder than anything Vance has said.

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I feel like I am taking crazy pills in this comment section. Drag queens are straightforwardly (ha!) weird! I have not against them other than finding drag shows very boring, but the whole thing is to be a little transgressive and weird by playing around with gender and sex.

Bible thumpers are also weird! Normal people don’t shout about religion in public, just like they don’t shout about sex!

Also, it’s not weird to not want your kid to be trans, and to worry about what influence school and peers at schools might have on them. The most normal parent behavior in the world to want to know what is up with your kids and what they are doing at school. Also the most normal parent behavior to be annoyed at the way schools are run and their many little power trips. Combine those two and you have parents go bananas, especially if the purported logic is “we need to protect your kids from YOU by keeping YOU in the dark”. Uh, no thanks!

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