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Thomas L. Hutcheson's avatar

"There has also been a norm shift in high-socioeconomic-status households toward the idea that teenagers should do things that burnish their resumes for college applications."

AND College admissions officer who think a hour of Lacrosse is a better predictor of elite college-ness than an hour at American Eagle. :)

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BronxZooCobra's avatar

"There has also been a norm shift in high-socioeconomic-status households toward the idea that teenagers should do things that burnish their resumes for college applications."

I think it's even more that the idea of a 16 year old with a job and a car and their own money out doing what they want as an independent actor is just inconceivable. Even the idea of it is very dangerous. A 16 year old is a kid who needs constant control and can't be expected to make any decisions about his time or activities without intense parental involvement. And then kids end up crippled by anxiety as they have had no opportunity to make decisions on their own .

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